Something everyone looks around and truly invests from the beginning of life.
So-called an unbreakable bond of Friendship.
Since ancient times, every single person has been celebrating friendship. Even if you see any cartoon movie there is always a so-called 'Gem' of a film who enters as a savior throughout the movie. Who is this person a friend, a companion, a mentor, he can be anyone but the most crucial fact that he is a selfless creature, who you get with a luck? The attachment or bonding he shares with you to make your life happening is the bond of friendship. It is a connection that gives warmth to everyone. Something everyone looks around and truly invests from the beginning of life. It gives a sense of security that there is someone you know would stand for you when no-one is going to be on your side and when you need them the most. But how would you know whom to trust? This is a bit tricky but not so difficult let’s try by going through the simple attributes.
AcceptanceA real friend is one who accepts you the way you are. He can always make you comfortable and secure. He is the one who would always accept you with your weakness and keep encouraging you to focus on your strength. A real and true friend is although difficult to find but once you find this gem, never let it go. A true friend always trusts you and your decisions. He becomes more trustworthy during the testing time, try it. He accepts your failures and personal growth.
Genuine and HonestyDo you have any single person around you who stands up for you and genuinely honest with you, if yes then you are among those lucky persons who are never misguided or mislead and never stand alone in a crowd or never be short of love? He is the one who can do any sort of difficult conversations, which you find difficult to hear or may not agree with. He doesn’t scared to keep the truth in front of you or show you the mirror. The best part is even if you don’t agree with his/her advice, he will continue to be advising for your betterment with other best options and alternatives.
Always hold you
A fake friend will be with you till you are successful and flourished. The moment you are in trauma or trouble, he/she will vanish within a few moments. Whereas the true one will always be there for you. A true friend is never going to abandon you. He is always there for you even in silence. His judgmental attitude is saved for the time when you need to be taught some tough lessons, the way your mom and dad do. And if you are in trouble and have closed all route and scope for yourself, at that point in time, he will be emerged as a replica of Batman or Captain Marvel to save you from the worst.
A good listenerHe is your data bank and library who usually carry your information, memories, jokes, and another kind of conversations. Whether you shout, dance, cry, laugh or throw your tantrums, there is always an idiot box available round the clock who you know will listen to you and your nonsense talks, dreams, break-ups, conflicts, mistakes, and gracefully absorb your stress and make you comfortable.
A Tea companion
If you have spent most of your hours sitting and having tea or coffee with that person, then mind it he is your lifetime gem. His company is all that you want when you are in your best or worst mood. There is always one with whom you want to have n number of tea or coffee without any reason. Even if you want to discuss Ramu or Shamu staying next door, you would prefer your friend and a cup of tea to make conversation epic.
Life time investmentFriendship is something that is regardless of caste, creed, race, age, and class. Be always sure and wise while selecting people. This is an effort-taking investment where you need to invest your energy and time. This is something you need to nurture every day because this is the one who gonna be around you and surrounds you not necessarily at your happier time but at your rough phase for sure. So be crystal clear in making friends and company. Stay away from fake people, mentality, and calculative people.
Celebrate the bond of friendship every day :)
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